Originally published at brigidkeely.com/wordpress. You can comment here or there.
Dr. Tiller, one of the few doctors in the USA who is willing and able to perform late-term abortion, was shot to death while leaving church services. He has been shot before, his clinic has been bombed, the women who have gone to him for health services have been intimidated, terrified, threatened, and injured. Now he is dead, murdered by a person or group who doesn’t believe that women have the right to make decisions about their health.
Late term abortions, those performed after 20 weeks, represent only 1.4% of total abortions performed by doctors in the USA. 1.4%. Even if you nudge the definition of “late term” back to 12 weeks gestation, a time where the fetus is maybe sort of possibly viable if you have cutting edge technology and millions of dollars to spend on health care (or a willingness to declare bankruptcy instead of paying astronomical medical bills), the total of abortions performed is only 6.2%. Yet late term abortions are presented by those who call themselves “Pro Life” (yet aren’t above murdering people) as incredibly common. Save the babies! It’s an epidemic of murder! God’s baby garden is getting too full of precious miracles!
Of course, the women who chose late term abortions generally do so not because they suddenly realize OMG I AM PREGNANT OH NOES if only I weren’t such a slut! I better get rid of the evidence and murder this baby! They do so because they are physically or financially unable to have an abortion earlier, because a sexual partner or family member prevented them from having an abortion earlier, because they did not know that it was possible to get an abortion or that it was ideal to have an abortion before X weeks. In other words, most women who have late term abortions do so out of ignorance or fear of someone hurting them. Those eager and willing to murder men who provide medical services to women, however, are quick to paint these women as too stupid to make any sort of medical decision for themselves, even when it’s the efforts of these murderers that have ensured that young women in this country grow up taught little to nothing about their bodies and contraception, and have fought to deny funding to organizations that provide contraception and reproductive health services, and which assist women who are having financial difficulties while pregnant.
So women whose much wanted babies are hydrocephalic or have malformed organs or don’t have brain tissue or are already dead and starting to rot are pretty much fucked because the doctors who can provide needed medical services to them are either prohibited by law from providing those services or have to worry about being murdered if they continue to provide these medical services. Assuming, of course, that the women themselves can make the journey, often across state lines, to a medical provider and then can safely enter and exit his or her clinic without getting harassed or assaulted themselves.
People who claim to be religious and who claim to “respect life” value the “life” of a lump of poorly formed non-viable tissue over the life of the woman carrying said tissue in her body. People who call themselves “pro life” have no issue with attacking women. While claiming to “respect life,” they seek to inhibit women’s access to health care, contraceptives (one of the best ways, if not THE best way, of reducing abortions is to reduce the amount of unwanted pregnancies) and contraceptive education. After negatively impacting her reproductive health, these individuals have also tried to strip away social safety nets that can help women with children. Funding has been pulled for health care, WIC, food stamps, and child care and welfare programs. Women are expected to “pull themselves up by their bootstraps” while also going into debt paying for vaccinations for their kids. They are expected to go to work and support themselves and their kids, but child care is so expensive that it’s very possible to turn over one’s entire paycheck to a day care facility. There’s a reason so many little kids from economically depressed backgrounds are shaken to death or otherwise killed by their care providers: their moms can’t afford anything better for them.
Women are expected to be virginal creatures, and if they have sex these “pro life” assholes expect them to be punished for it. They deserve pregnancy, as a punishment. They deserve poverty, as a punishment. Women aren’t meant to enjoy sex, and those who have sex out of the strictly defined marital bed deserve to be punished. And since a potential baby has more value than a living woman, even if the fetus is non viable (and conceived during heterosexual wedlock in accordance with Christian religious values), said fetus should be treasured and made comfortable despite any risk to the mother’s health. Because, you know, those women had SEX and sex is BAD when women have it, and they need to just shut the fuck up already and PAY THE PRICE. And if that price means KNOWING that their babies don’t have heads, they need to just continue gestating them for 28 more weeks with all the physical pain and discomfort that pregnancy entails and also the emotional discomfort and pain with knowing that their babies are going to be born DEAD, and carry that lump of malformed tissue “to term” and either push it out their disgusting, filthy cootches or else have major abdominal surgery to remove it. Because every life is sacred, as long as it’s not an adult woman’s. Sure, the precious angel fetus might die and start to rot and poison the woman and kill her slowly, but that bitch shouldn’t have been having sex anyway, am I right? Sin of Eve and all that.
There is a continual chipping away at my rights as a human being. Women should be able to go to clinics to get cervical exams without assholes who claim to represent Jesus shoving pictures of dead babies at them and harassing and assaulting them. Women should be able to visit womens’ health doctors without worrying about being shot to death doing so. Women should be considered, wait for it, rational human beings who are capable of making their own health and reproductive choices; not treated as childlike innocents who need these choices made FOR them. Time and again individuals and organizations have targeted people who provide medical services to women and have stalked, harassed, threatened, and killed them. Places where women receive medical care have literally been bombed and destroyed. Clinics that provide reproductive medical services (often to less affluent women) like PAP smears, vaginal and cervical exams (you know, to detect cancer), and contraceptive services (which, you know, prevent pregnancy), are picketed and pressured to not open. Women seeking medical care are verbally harassed and sometimes assaulted or murdered. This has been going on for YEARS and rarely is anything done about it. This is terrorism directed at women, and it’s going unpunished.
I’ll leave you with this graphic:


Comments
Oh George Carlin, you were such an astute man in so many ways.
No matter what rhetoric is spouted by either side, no matter what bullshit is thrown out there, I keep coming back to this notion, thanks to my time in social work and working with kids:
I would rather see a woman get an abortion than give birth to a baby who is unwanted, who will be unloved, who will not be cared for. Is an abortion something I would get? Probably not. That doesn't make it an invalid choice for anyone else. It just means that I am not going to get one, at least that I have planned. For me, not bringing a child in to this world unless it is wanted and loved is a far more moral choice than forcing a woman to continue a pregnancy against her will. (Better to prevent the unwanted pregnancy in the first place, as well, but hey, contraception is not quite 100% effective, and why should someone be punished for the failings of modern medicine?)
There are too many children out there who are, to put it shortly and succinctly, fucked. Children whose parents never wanted them and so abuse their children. Children who go hungry because programs like WIC are slashed year after year, programs like food banks and soup kitchens go unsupported, and whose parents can't find jobs that actually pay anything resembling a living wage, so they can't feed their kids well. Children who aren't fed, bathed, or clothed, and who do poorly in school and never get an equal chance to "pull themselves up". And that's the tip of the fucking iceberg.
Some of these unwanted and unloved and un-cared-for kids - not all; DCFS/DSS/your local flavor is also highly underfunded - end up in programs like the one I worked in. We had eighteen-year-olds who needed help reading the newspaper (which is written at about a sixth-grade level, ps). We had eighteen-year-olds who needed intensive tutoring in basic math. These kids were not taking calculus, like I was my senior year; they were still struggling with multiplication and division. We had kids who had no idea of how to wash clothes, or had no idea that showering every day and putting on clean clothes every day was considered a societal norm. We had kids who had never ridden bikes, or lived anywhere where they had their own bed.
Those kids are why I believe that women should have choices - and not just choices in what to do about pregnancy, I mean choices about their healthcare, choices about contraception, choices about everything in their lives. And, more importantly, the education needed to make those choices. A choice doesn't exist unless you know about it, and by eliminating comprehensive sex ed, we are taking away choices from women (and men and transpeople and, well, fuck, EVERYONE).
I loved each and every one of the kids I worked with. I still do. I miss that job every day, and I'm actually working on an MSW so I can keep doing that sort of work. But there'd be a whole lot less need for it if we gave people the freedom and information to be autonomous, stopped trying to run other people's lives for them, realized that sex isn't dirty, and supported our fellow humans by providing safety nets when the system, no matter how good, inevitably fails some people, instead of condemning them to misery at best for circumstances that are largely out of their control.
Edited at 2009-05-31 11:27 pm (UTC)
Please tell me how it is more moral to put your child (and yourself and your family!) through THAT than it is to peacefully avoid it.
Your longer post is very sad but I'm so thrilled that people like you exist in this world who have the desire and ability to patch society up. Thank you so much.
Thank you for posting it. The news is making me absolutely ill today, and the reactions of the anti-choice crowd is terrifying.
I agree whole heartedly with myownwench where she says that she probably wouldn't get an abortion herself, but supported other women who wanted to. It's exactly how I feel about it.
I have known and on occasion worked for a fairly well known abortion doctor who I will not name for obvious reasons. He is one of the kindest people I have ever met. Yet his home and place of business are picketed so often that the city council is debating passing a law that would ban the showing of graphic photos of aborted fetuses in public altogether. Why should they even need to do that?
My best friend was forced to carry an anencephalic child to term because medicaid would pay to keep it alive in utero, but not to terminate the gestation of a child who would die. Oh and they also paid to have it delivered by C-section the first day possible that it would be considered full term.
I was with her when the ultrasound was done and we cried together over it. I just could not imagine that KNOWING that this child would, no questions, die at birth, that they would be cruel enough to make her go through that. But they did.
I stayed with her and her husband for 13 of the 14 hours it took this child to slip away. During that time she was held constantly by someone. But she was missing the part of her brain that regulated her temperature and breathing. She was also blind and deaf. During that time she constantly struggled for breath and was kept swathed in blankets because her temperature kept dropping and we were trying to make her comfortable. So, I ask, how could that be seen as merciful to the baby, the parents, or any of us who went through it with her?
I'm extremely sorry for your friend's loss. Anencephaly was one of the (many) things I was worried about when pregnant. I really can't imagine going through that. I'm so incredibly glad your friend had the support of someone like you. Thank you so much.